A Good Night Rambling

Tonight I feel like babbling again. Hahaha After a few of not-so-good post about... well, partly about life, I must say that I must 'claim' back the good things. Urgh. What am I talking about?? Never mind that. Hahah
Anyhow....

I felt happy, content and at peace tonight. No no no! Don't think that I've spent my night with a guy or do anything stupid or whatsoever. No. None of it. It's the fasting month right...? So today, since it's a 3 days holiday, I went back home. Which means, I got the chance to buka puasa dengan ibu, mak long and uncle. But we break our fast at the Masjid Wilayah. Honestly, I really like Masjid Wilayah. Not because its glamour or anything. But the feeling of it. The beauty of it. The bigness of it. (Jap, does the word bigness exist??) Of course if we went to break our fast there, we would surely do our Maghrib prayer there. Including Isyak and also the terawih. But I only do 8. hehehe Saya sangat suka dapat sembahyang terawih dekat masjid! weee!!!~~ hahaha

But my point today here ladies and gentlemen...is not about the terawih or the masjid. But the people. Well, few who caught my attention. Of course la bila pergi terawih ni parents semua dok angkut anak-anak ikut bawak gi masjid. Setengah tu sembahyang la. Tapi yang kecik lote tu setakat buat bising ada la. But not for this two kids whom my mom siap bagi chocolate lagi sebab dia tengok budak tu sangat behave. I mean like, sangat obedient lah! Ibu cerita, budak-budak tu, kalo orang lain usik pun, dia tak tergoda. haha tergoda nak layan la maksudnya.. nak main-main.  Kalau dia nangis pun, nangis tak berbunyi. Lantas, keluar lah ayat ibu yang satu ini: 'Nina pun nanti kena didik anak Nina macam tu!'. Gulp. Aku hanya boleh tersengih dan try cover sambil minum air. 'Insya-Allah...'. I wonder, how do they train their kids. Mesti mak dia garang gila kan sampai anak nangis pun tak berbunyi. Aku tabik la sama lu! Serious!! Sebab bukan senang nak cari parents yang betul-betul menitik beratkan soal attitude anak-anak when in public. Most of the parents would just let their kids do WHATEVER they want, which sometimes can be annoying for us. Lompat sana, lompat sini. Jerit sana, jerit sini.

As a lady, of course sometimes I do think about this. And that, sometimes makes me, feel the love for a child that's not even here yet. Hahaha Okay. That sounds scary doesn't it?? -.-'

I don't wanna teach my kids to be rewarded if they behave good or what. Example: Kalau tak tumpah nasi, nanti ibu kasi coklat banyak-banyak.

Get my point?? I mean like, it's good to reward, but not to the extend that it can damage your child.

Ryte... I think I'm scaring you guys with this post. Okay, ciao! Have a good day! And remember, don't waste money on food excessively!!! Happy Ramadhan people!! ;DD

3 comments

  1. i macam tu lah masa kecik2. then my father said, bila kitorang nampak budak2 yang berlari-lari.
    "kakyong kalau macam tu, bertuah lah."sebab i sgt pendiam okay masa kecik2. hahaha
    sigh~~
    :D

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  2. too much candies will damage your kid's teeth!!
    nono
    instead of giving sweets, why don't we buy them a new story book?
    hey, just thought about it!!
    :D
    isn't it nice?

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  3. Yong: hahaha you pendiam ke dulu?? i think i boleh bayang kot.. hahah ni my mom ckp, kalo ade org usik budak tu.. mak dia tgkkkk je anak dia.. anak dia pun phm2. hahhaha

    zhafa: yeah... story book is a good idea! kan?? and then papa die kena cari duit byk la sbb anak nak beli buku byk. hahahaha OMG.... im smiling alone... hahaha

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